What I Learned From Being Called ‘Selfish’

Did you know that every human being’s default setting is at ‘selfish’? That’s why it’s a huge deal when you meet someone that people consider selfless.

As Makcit, I’ve never thought I was a selfless human, but I was very sure I wasn’t selfish either. At least, not until I spoke to this new guy I met recently, the boyfriend material guy from my last post. You can job your memory here.

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Online Dating: The Good, The Bad, and the very Odd

It’s been a while and I do apologize for not keeping you updated. A lot has happened in the last couple of weeks which I shall tell at a later date, but today is dedicated to the distinct personalities I’ve encountered on my quest for a white mate in the online dating world.

The responses I get when I mention this quest of mine are divided between those for and those against who think I’m either a joker or operating in an alternate universe. Thing is, I don’t give a…. Fudge! 😁

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TAROK POP CULTURE: MUSIC

I’ve been waiting for the time to write on this subject. I recently attended a friend’s send-off prayer and there I met Helen Binbol. Before I say anything more, I must tell you that she is a very nice person. She is always ready with a beautiful smile for anyone she meets.
Now, back to business. It was quite unfortunate that I missed her song presentation, but I was in luck ’cause she had the soft copy and she sent it to my phone. I didn’t know what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised and proud. Surprised cos she blew it outta the park and proud ’cause she sang in TAROK!

There seems to be a surge of Tarok talent circulating. I’ve heard a few and it makes me proud to know that my people are really doing music and not just going mainstream. There are the likes of Dan Tally, Pon J and a host of others. Today is about Helen’s song which has a hint of the infamous South African rhythm that you can’t help but love… I will let you listen to the song and judge for yourself… I know you won’t regret it.
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