“How is ‘Oga’?”
That’s the sure question that follows greetings between people who probably used to date or from that guy who wanted to date you, but suddenly got married to someone else.
Let’s be clear on something, that you got married is good for you – good riddance, but don’t think for a second that you are better off because you got married to the first girl that said yes to you.
It’s common in these parts that a lady is expected to go to the university/polytechnic, serve her country, then get married- in that order. Sadly, life has it’s own order and never follows ours. In view of this, some marry first and do the others later or do the first two, get their masters degree then get married.